While navigating parenthood, a baby’s teething phase is inevitable. Teething is a trying time for babies and parents, but with the right knowledge and tips from other parents who have gone through it, you can ease their discomfort and make the process better for all of you.
In this post, we’ll jump into the common questions and concerns of teething including how long it lasts, the most challenging stages, and relief ideas. Practical and natural techniques will provide relief through this challenging, yet memorable milestone.
So, whether you’re a first-time parent or a seasoned pro, join us as we explore the world of teething and learn how to soothe your little one through this teething journey.
How long does fussiness from teething last?
Teething fussiness can vary from baby to baby, but on average, it typically lasts for a few days to a few weeks as new teeth grow. I’ve had two kids, one had her first tooth emerge at 6 months, and the other had his first tooth at 10 months. Other babies won’t start teething until after 12 months old.
Although teething pain can last for weeks, some babies may experience longer periods of discomfort. Remember, every child is unique, so just pay attention to your baby’s cues and provide comfort as needed.
Signs your baby is teething
Signs of teething are different for each baby, but common signs include:
- Increased drooling: Teething stimulates saliva production, so you may notice your baby drooling more than usual.
- Gumming or chewing: Your baby will instinctively gum toys or furniture to relieve the itch and discomfort caused by teething.
- Irritability: Teething is uncomfortable for babies. The discomfort leads to increased fussiness and irritability.
- Swollen or tender gums: You may notice that your baby’s gums appear red, swollen, or tender to the touch as a new tooth starts to emerge. You’ll be able to feel bumps on your baby’s gums.
- Eating and sleeping changes: Discomfort from teething can affect your baby’s appetite and sleep, causing them to eat less or have trouble falling asleep or staying asleep.
- Rubbing their face or ears: Babies may rub their face or ears in an attempt to alleviate the discomfort in their gums.
- Fever: Some babies may experience a slight increase in body temperature when they are teething. It will be low-grade and last only a few days. However, if your baby has a fever higher than 100.4°F (38°C), please consult with a healthcare professional to rule out other causes.
What stage of teething hurts the most?
The stage of teething that tends to be the most painful for babies is when the molars start to come in. Molars can cause discomfort because they require more pressure to break through the gums. During this stage, you may notice increased irritability, drooling, and difficulty sleeping or eating. Providing soothing remedies like chilled teething toys or gentle massages can offer relief during this challenging time.
Babies are the most irritable when teeth are barely about to break through the gums. My 9-month-old has 5 teeth now and since the 6th one started showing as a bumps on her gums.
Not only did she spike a fever, but she has had trouble sleeping because of the pain and irritability beyond comfort.
Best teething relief for babies
As a mom with a teething baby, I have tried every which way to relieve my 9-month-old from her teething pain. I’ve tried everything natural and over-the-counter to comfort my child’s teething, so I’ve come up with a list of the best teething relief. Remember, every child is different and will have different preferences. This is what I’ve found works best.
Chilled teething toys
Cold temperatures can help numb sore and swollen gums. Offer your baby teething toys that have been chilled in the refrigerator (not frozen) to gnaw on to provide relief.
Most teething toys are meant to be chilled now, but use your child’s favorite and cool it down for them.
Cold washcloth
One thing my baby loves chewing on is a cloth. Dampen a clean washcloth or burp cloth and place it in the refrigerator for a short time.
Once chilled, allow your baby to chew on the cold washcloth to soothe their gums. Although your baby might not enjoy the flavor of this, the cooling effect may compensate for that.
Gentle massage
Using clean fingers or a training toothbrush, gently massage your baby’s gums. I found this to be the best relief when you don’t have toys handy. Wash your hands thoroughly before massaging and ensure your nails are trimmed to prevent any accidental scratching.
Teething rings
Silicone or rubber teething rings provide a safe and satisfying surface for babies to chew on. Give them toys that are specifically designed for teething and can be chilled for added relief.
Breastfeeding or bottle-feeding
Nursing or offering a bottle can provide comfort to a teething baby even if you’re feeding them only 1 or 2 oz. The sucking motion can help distract them from the pain and provide a sense of security.
Over-the-counter remedies
Plenty of companies make cooling gels for babies that provide teething relief. Some have all-natural ingredients while others are created just for teething.
Some gels that help with teething are:
Consult with your pediatrician before using any over-the-counter teething gels or medications.
Cold foods
Offer your baby cold foods such as yogurt or pureed fruit (if they’re old enough for solids) to help soothe their gums.
Adding frozen fruits to a silicone feeder like the one pictured here is a yummy treat for the baby while providing temporary relief.
This trick works best with my teething infant. Her favorites are strawberries and grapes. Since the food is in a silicone feeder, it prevents a choking hazard.
Some moms from a local Facebook mom group suggested using a frozen celery stick(under close supervision). This has been a game-changer for some moms.
Distraction
It may seem like a long shot, but distraction is a good way to steer away from the pains of growing teeth. Treat your baby to activities or playtime by distracting them from the discomfort of teething. Sing, read, or go on a stroll to help take their mind off of their sore mouth.
Pediatrician recommendations
If your baby is experiencing severe discomfort or if you’re concerned about their teething symptoms, don’t hesitate to consult with your pediatrician.
During my baby’s fever, I had to check with her doctor to make sure the teething pain and fever weren’t from an underlying condition like an ear infection. The pediatrician can offer personalized advice and recommendations to help alleviate your baby’s teething pain.
How do I know if my baby is crying from teething pain?
While it can be challenging to pinpoint the exact cause of your baby’s irritability, some signs indicate teething pain rather than anything else. Look for increased drooling, swollen gums, irritability, and a desire to chew on objects.
If your baby’s discomfort seems to come in waves or is accompanied by other symptoms like a low-grade fever, it’s likely caused by teething.
Trust your instincts as a parent and provide comfort and support to help alleviate your baby’s discomfort.
At what age does teething pain stop?
Teething pain typically subsides once all of your baby’s primary teeth have come out, which is usually around the age of 2 to 3 years old.
However, every child is different, and some may continue to experience discomfort as their molars come in.
Final Thoughts
Navigating the teething journey with your baby can be challenging, but armed with knowledge and patience, you can help ease their discomfort and provide comfort during this developmental milestone. From understanding the signs of teething to implementing soothing remedies, we’ve covered a range of strategies to help you support your little one through this phase.
Remember that every baby is unique, so it’s essential to pay attention to your child’s individual cues and adapt your approach accordingly. Trust your instincts as a parent, and don’t hesitate to seek guidance from healthcare professionals if you have any concerns or questions about your baby’s teething symptoms.
As you continue on this journey, remember that this phase is temporary, and your baby will soon emerge with a beautiful set of teeth. In the meantime, cherish the moments of cuddles and comfort, and know that you’re doing your best to provide your baby with the love and support they need during this time of growth and development.